Hey, Mr. Right

Have you ever wonder about how and when will you know that someone is the right one for you? I do question it all the time.

How can we know that he/she is the right one? And, when will we know? I'm pretty sure that those question at least for once crossed your mind.
We used to think, that if he/she say or do something we expect without telling them, he/she must be the right one. No, if they're right, they're just lucky-guesser. Or maybe, if they bring changes to our life, it must be them. Even if he/she can give everything we want, material or feelings, it may not be them.
This human race is poisoned with the theory telling us "We will know when he/she proposes us." Oops, remember how many couple choose to divorce every year? Once upon a time, they were falling in love with each other too.

I think the best answer I can get is we will never know. Even when we're married, we will not stop questioning if it is right to marry him/her. It is an unanswerable question.Why? Because knowing he/she is the right one is not a statement you need to go to the next level of your relationship, it is the conclusion you can get after going through everything, literally everything, with him/her. Since conclusion always comes later, deciding to spend your life and grow old with someone is like a gamble. The difference is you cannot quit easily, you've been trapped in wedding vow.
We will only know we have lived our life right or not, marry the right person or not, have a happy enjoyable life or not the second when we close our life for the last time. Because they are all conclusions, not decisions.

That's only my crazy wild speculation, you can have another concept in your head. Follow what your heart and head, both of them. Because finally I found that true love is when your head and heart say and agree for the same thing, true love is when you love someone for both sentimental and rational reasons.

I hope this post helps you. Thanks for reading and sorry for my bad english :p
Have a nice day, readers!